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Post by kevin on Jul 7, 2015 23:23:04 GMT -5
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Post by kayo on Aug 5, 2015 17:18:27 GMT -5
Lol... a few...
To really explain my relationship and where menstruation fits into it would take way too long. Okay, maybe not long. Periods really aren't an issue with either of us anymore. They don't add anything to our sex life. We deal with it, work around it, make small adjustments (really more for convenience than for sex acts, such as keeping a towel under her or my butt). It wasn't always this way.
In the beginning I was very hesitant to have sex with Cath at all. Don't get me wrong, I didn't feel guilty about it. I enjoyed it. But I had issues with my own sense of who I was and whether or not I could ever commit to a person long term. I've talked about this before and right now I don't feel like bringing it all up again... but I had some rough times, and a lot of it happened just before Cath and I got serious. So sex was just not on my map, and Cath, bless her heart, didn't rush me.
It took me three years of intimacy before I felt ready to tame the "red menace" in bed. Since then I've earned my red wings too many times to count, and Cath is right up there also, but truly, it's just something to deal with. On heavy days we don't indulge... it's just too messy for oral, but everything else is still ok. Forgive me for not going into details, lol.
There have been a few embarrassing incidents, and more than a few funny ones. I can't think of anything that would rank as a 'disaster'. We've thrown away sheets, pillows, undies, towels, and a kitchen rug (see, that was a funny one). Since the kids came along the red sessions are fewer and farther between, but I'm perfectly okay with that. Cath continues to believe I am totally insane for sharing this side of my life, but heck, we're all a little crazy, and this is pretty harmless.
Thanks for making me answer this... lol.
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